Question.

有人问：我们就一定要先领悟，接受，再放手吗？ 就不能先放手，再接受吗？觉不觉悟其实在事后，可能都不重要了。朋友说我想太多，犹豫太久。 烦。

哈哈哈。。。。那就先把自己喝醉， 再想想这是什么酒， 为什么要喝。

At this thought, suddenly a lot of scenes come rushing to my mind, and I cannot stop myself from laughing. I know someone who does that exactly!

Many times if given the luxury, I'd like to think that I have thought through my decisions carefully. And I'd be at peace with the consequence of my actions or non-actions. At times I have also made rash decisions, but never unknowingly, and I am also at peace with the consequences, good or bad.

What rakes my feathers are decisions made beyond my control, with consequences I cannot withstand. Must I need to put up with this?  Its like 先放手， 无需接受， 无需领悟。 被强奸啦！